LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT

There is no such thing as "love at First sight. You rather call it " Attraction at first sight". Feelings comes up instantly, Emotions builds up whenever the sexual hormones gets stimulated by the feelings of "lust" sending wrong signals to the brain and being misinterpreted as love". On the contrary, True love develops gradually . It does not rush. It is slow and steady. Sometimes it may take days, weeks or perhaps month. But once it happens, it becomes real and sincere. When you meet an opposite sex for the first time, you only get attracted to them...the feelings at that moment can't be outrightly described as "love" till you've known them, accepted their flaws, seen their weak points, accepted their personality, get to love them for who they are and not who you want them to be". Ready to stick by them despite their imperfections. Any thing sort of this is "infatuation or lust". This explains why people who claims to love each other gets bored and tired of the relationship once sexual intimacy takes place or when one or both of them begins to see the flaws and imperfections in the other person . Because love never happened initially.

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