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KNOW YOUR WORTH.

Are you in abusive relationship?perhaps, you are being taken for granted. You value your partner so much, you can walk a mile for them, but unfortunately, they can't take a step for you. You put all your effort to ensure the relationship works, but  they do nothing about it because they probably ain't into you. You feel depressed and wished they could see through your heart to understand how you feel for them. And reciprocate thereafter.

If you are experiencing such scenario. Then I would advise you to calm down, take a deep breath and listen to what I have to say now.

You haven't done anything wrong by falling in love.
You haven't done anything wrong by choosing to stick to them amidst pressures from others who would have been glad having you as their date.
You have done absolutely nothing wrong by being loyal to them.

However, your major mistake was not realizing the fact that relationship cannot thrive well without the effort of both partners.

A heart needs to express love, and another heart needs to receive it, appreciate and reciprocate afterwords.

You deserved to be loved.
You deserved to be given a prefential treatment.

Don't force if it ain't happening. Love is natural, it is neither manipulated nor pushed. If your partner ain't treating you well, walk away. Easy right? Hell no!!! But that's the best decision ever. There is always someone meant for you, there is someone who deserves you. You can only get to meet them when you disentangle your self from the wrong relationships.

Don't settle for less.



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