Are men really scared of commitment?

This is one of the common question women ask on daily basis. A lot of women are in a relationship where it seems as though as getting a man commit is a difficult if not an impossible task. They are so skeptical about the relationship, as a result non commitment by their man. Which often gets them in a paranoid state. And they always wondered why a man who claimed to have a soft spot for them could find it extremely hard to show commitment in a relationship which may have probably lasted for some couple of years. To some women, it seem as though their man is emotionally distance from them, they do all to ensure the relationships works, while the man does nothing on his own part rather than enjoy the benefits coming from her own part alone. Now the question is. What could be the major reason behind this? Before I outline some major reasons behind this, I have to brief you on the emotional status of men. Men are rational beings who are often derived by their Ego. Unlike women who are derived by emotions. They are so egocentric that no matter how deep or helpless a man might be in love, he can never allow his ego to be dented or dragged to the mud. An average man protects his ego and can never have anything come in between it. So therefore, before they make a decision, they might have given it a thorough thought and analysis, to ensure it won't have a negative influence or outcome on them. Having known this, let's look At some factors that leads to non-committment in men. 1)Desperation- most women in the bid to get a man commit goes about in a wrong way. Thus turning them into a desperate and needy woman. Forcing a man to make marriage promises to you or to be emotionally attached to you is like forcing a vehicle which had ran out of fuel to move at all cost. A man already knows whom he want to spend the rest of his life with at the beginning of every relationship. So being desperate about it would only make him run farther away from you. Neediness and desperation, are a great turn off for men. They always want to be with a woman who have self esteem and confidence. Who wouldn't loose her value in the name of marriage. 2)lack of interest- a man may not commit because he has probably lost interest in the relationship. A lot of women are guilty of this. They see the signs earlier and chose to ignore. Probably hoping that things might change for better. But unfortunately, they often get stuck with their hope and assumptions. While the status quo remains unchanged. Men find it extremely hard to open up whenever they are no longer interested for fear of hurting their woman. Instead they communicate that to their partner non verbally via some signs like low or zero communication, distancing themselves both emotionally and physically. 3) lack of finance- this might be the most common reason. Especially in a relationship where there is mutual love and understanding with zero issues. It is therefore expected that the woman ought to understand him at this period. And be patient enough till his financially ready to do the needful.