Relationship and life inspiration

He has been your crush, you admire everything about him.. His charming looks, masculinity, charisma, talents and sense of humour...you've always wished and fantasize to have him close to you...at a point, you began to develop this urge and sudden quest within you to approach him by giving him the signal to woo you but you ignore the thought as that may bruise your ego and pride as a "woman"... Making you more vulnerable to hurt and heartbreak especially if the feelings were not mutual and reciprocated. You then decided to keep calm, and allow nature take its full course. While praying that your wishes comes to pass. Fortunately, your dreams became a reality, when he finally asked you out.you didn't think twice before accepting his proposal, after all that was what you've been patiently waiting for. The relationship started, but you were still not satisfied... Because you don't just want to be in a relationship for the sake of being in one...you were ex

This is one of the common question women ask on daily basis. A lot of women are in a relationship where it seems as though as getting a man commit is a difficult if not an impossible task. They are so skeptical about the relationship, as a result non commitment by their man. Which often gets them in a paranoid state. And they always wondered why a man who claimed to have a soft spot for them could find it extremely hard to show commitment in a relationship which may have probably lasted for some couple of years. To some women, it seem as though their man is emotionally distance from them, they do all to ensure the relationships works, while the man does nothing on his own part rather than enjoy the benefits coming from her own part alone. Now the question is. What could be the major reason behind this? Before I outline some major reasons behind this, I have to brief you on the emotional status of men. Men are rational beings who are often derived by their Ego. Unlike women

And so you've finally found your significant other after so many failed relationship and long periods of isolation from it. You have no doubt within you because their attitude rightly indicates that they are the right one. And so what next??? You can't wait to tie the knot with them, you can't wait to spend the rest of your life with them. emotionally and physically you are ready to settle down. but hey!!! Psychologically, you ain't too sure. You have some past baggage that keeps popping out the guilty conscience in you. You feel like hiding it from them, after all, everyone has a past. probably an ugly one. But unfortunately, your conscience keeps pricking you. Letting the cat out of the bag isn't a good option either, you are equally scared that it might pose the end of your lovely union. As some past seems to have a correlation with the future. At this point, you might be in dilemma and skeptical of which decision to make. However, you

You've searched for true love. and fortunately, you finally found one. From all indications, they met the qualities you've always desired in a partner. You started off as a friends, and one thing eventually led to another, you became inseparable. The feelings was mutual that you couldn't get enough of each other. Just like every other relationship , After dating for some years, the urge of settling down with each other began to develop. He proposed to you and you glady accepted. As that is what you've always anticipated for. And marriage preparations began in earnest. Just few months before your marriage ceremony,the unusual happened. You discovered that your spouse to be is not whom he/she portrayed him/herself to be. You discovered an attitude in him/ her that you may find difficult to curtail. This scenario has often led a lot of people especially women in going into the wrong marriage, as the society often place marital pressures on them more than their male

And so you heard that bill gate dropped out from school to pursue his dreams of becoming a Microsoft developer . Dangote never saw the four walls of the classroom, but these are men that has a top ranking in the list of world's richest. They are just doing fine even without a formal education. Now you wonder why you are stressing yourself, attending lectures, studying so hard to achieve a wonderful Result, having to deal with some lecturers who wouldn't give a damn in stressing life out of you and trying to pull you down with their last blood. When you can easily quit school and starts making million within few years or perhaps months as you ain't even sure of making it via the labour market. I am very certain that this question might have been running through your mind. But before you rush into making a drastic decision which is capable of ruining your future, pay attention to what I have to say. A successful life begins with planning and so much analysis. N

This has been a question that has kept so many women in a dilemma over the years. The more they ponder on it, the more confused they become. At the initial stage, he is all over you, professing his undying love for you and showering you with so much affections. You thought you've found the one. Your instincts gave you the assurance that your "MR right" is here. He asked for sex. You didn't think about it twice because to you he deserves it. You felt safe and secured with him and that's why you didn't hesitate to give him that access to your body even though you may not have had the experience before. He finally had his way, and that moment you thought his love towards you would increase. But alas, you were wrong. to your greatest amazement, reverse became the case. He starts to act weird, became distant and cold. Leaving you in a devastated state. At that moment, it then dawned on you that it was all about sex after all. Now the question is, wha

There is no such thing as "love at First sight. You rather call it " Attraction at first sight". Feelings comes up instantly, Emotions builds up whenever the sexual hormones gets stimulated by the feelings of "lust" sending wrong signals to the brain and being misinterpreted as love". On the contrary, True love develops gradually . It does not rush. It is slow and steady. Sometimes it may take days, weeks or perhaps month. But once it happens, it becomes real and sincere. When you meet an opposite sex for the first time, you only get attracted to them...the feelings at that moment can't be outrightly described as "love" till you've known them, accepted their flaws, seen their weak points, accepted their personality, get to love them for who they are and not who you want them to be". Ready to stick by them despite their imperfections. Any thing sort of this is "infatuation or lust". This explains why people who claim

Are you in abusive relationship?perhaps, you are being taken for granted. You value your partner so much, you can walk a mile for them, but unfortunately, they can't take a step for you. You put all your effort to ensure the relationship works, but  they do nothing about it because they probably ain't into you. You feel depressed and wished they could see through your heart to understand how you feel for them. And reciprocate thereafter. If you are experiencing such scenario. Then I would advise you to calm down, take a deep breath and listen to what I have to say now. You haven't done anything wrong by falling in love. You haven't done anything wrong by choosing to stick to them amidst pressures from others who would have been glad having you as their date. You have done absolutely nothing wrong by being loyal to them. However, your major mistake was not realizing the fact that relationship cannot thrive well without the effort of both partners. A heart needs

The issue of Ex's surfacing from nowhere to interfere in a present relationship is a very critical issue that really calls for adequate attention. The prefix "Ex". Which was derived from the word Expired means no longer valid or in existence. When a  break up occurs, it is assumed that the relationship has come to an end and their presence in your life no longer exist. You then have two options. Either to make up by settling  whatever is the  issue or part ways. If you've both chosen to part ways, you are expected to learn whatever lessons that is necessary and move on so as to avoid repeating it in your next relationship. Moving into another relationship immediately may not be the best especially if there are still unresolved feelings. But reverse is the case today, so many people break up. Only to start entertaining distractions from their Ex's. Don't allow your ex ruin your present relationship. If you can't handle the issue of  being friends w